Suffering over things that have happened to us is nothing more than an argument with the past.
Byron KatieNothing can cost you someone you love. The only thing that can cost you your husband is if you believe a thought. That's how you move away from him. That's how the marriage ends. You are one with your husband until you believe the thought that he should look a certain way, he should give you something, he should be something other than what he is. That's how you divorce him. Right then and there you have lost your marriage.
Byron KatieIf you want reality to be different than it is, you might as well try to teach a cat to bark.
Byron Katie