I started working for the 'NY Observer' when I was 33. After I had been writing for them for about a year and a half the editor said, 'Your stories are the most talked about stories in the 'Observer'; you should have your own column.'

Sometimes I think all the trouble in the world is caused by men. If there were no men, women would always be happy. ~Carrie

Why do magazines do this to women? It's all about creating insecurity. Trying to make women feel like they're not good enough. And when women don't feel like they're good enough, guess what? Men win. That's how they keep us down.

When it comes to people -- don't write about who you know; but what you know of human nature.

I have this theory: If you forgive someone, they can't hurt you anymore.

Maybe our girlfriends are our soulmates and guys are just people to have fun with.

I make mistakes. That's what I do. I speak without thinking, I act without knowing. I drink so much that I can barely walk...I'm a fantastic lover though, and an amazing friend. God knows I mean well.