The elements in a relationship which seem impossible to share, the secretly disturbing, dissatisfying elements, are the most rewarding to share. This is a hard, risky, frightening thing to learn, and it needs to be re-learned over and over.

It's an awful risky thing to live

We in the West seem to have made a fetish out of complete individual self-sufficiency, of not needing help, of being completely private except in a very few selected relationships.

Openness to all attitudes no matter how extreme or unrealistic they may seem.

Don't be a damned ammunition wagon. Be a rifle!

A person cannot teach another person directly; a person can only facilitate another's learning

What you are to be, you are now becoming.