Shame occurs when you haven't been able to get away with the 'who' you want people to think you are.

There are no individuals in the world only fragments of families

When there are kids involved, there's no such thing as divorce.

Once it's established that we are a team, I can demand of you and expect you to demand of me. Life without pain is an addiction and the fantasy of perpetual happiness is like the "delusion of fusion."

As much as I would miss my wife if she were to die, I would miss what we are together even more. Our "we-ness," our "us-ness."

I have a theory that theories are destructive.

If we can abandon our missionary zeal we have less chance of being eaten by cannibals.