Nobody wants to read about a good-looking happy person.
I grew up knowing that I had the prettiest mother of anyone in my class.
I envy people who have the capacity to sit with another human being and find them endlessly interesting, I would rather watch TV. Of course this becomes eventually known to the other person.
I like that - the "you-ish" character.
My extroversion is a way of managing my introversion.
The message about sex and relationships that she had gotten as a child... was confused, contradictory. Sex was for men, and marriage, like lifeboats, was for women and children.