Don't mind all those people who say that you should be back to normal in a month or two. Grieving is all part of helping yourself anyway.

We have a tendency to put ourselves last, we concentrate on everything else; work, friends, family, home issues, but we ignore the deeper stuff until it becomes so compressed that it can explode.

You can run and run as fast and as far as you like, but the truth is, wherever you run, there you are.

People tell stories and it's up to those who listen whether to believe or not." "Shouldn't the storyteller believe it." "The storyteller should tell it.

Sighs and silences and avoided conversations are just as important as the things you do talk about.

Time cannot be packaged and ribboned and left under trees for christmas morning.Time can't be given.But it can be shared

Perhaps it would have been easier if I said that not being able to find something is like suddenly not remembering the words to your favorite song that you knew by heart. It’s like suddenly forgetting the name of someone you know really well and see every day, or the name of a television show you watched for years. It’s something so frustrating that it plays on your mind over and over again because you know there’s an answer but no one can tell you it. It niggles and niggles at me and I can’t rest until I know the answers.