Today my son and I went for a stroll and saw the sea lions and watched the sunset and played ball in the park with our dog.

I can keep my head together in a crisis.

Most of the time I meet my trainer at the gym and we do a lot of everything: weights circuit with cardio, football drills, sprinting with weights on the treadmill.

When you gain 50 pounds during pregnancy like I did, you fear that you'll never get back in shape

My ex-husband and I, even though we're not together, we are 100 percent together in raising our kid. We communicate a lot and where I drop the ball and need him to pick it up or vice versa, he's there.

I wasn't willing to be a victim. I only wanted to survive, and I only wanted to get through.

I miss THE WALLFLOWERS. Great band. Wrote my first Fan letter to them. No response.