If love closes, the self contracts and hardens: the mind having nothing else to occupy its attention and give it that change and renewal it requires, busies itself more and more with self-feeling, which takes on narrow and disgusting forms, like avarice, arrogance and fatuity.
Charles Horton CooleyPrudence and compromise are necessary means, but every man should have an impudent end which he will not compromise.
Charles Horton CooleyThe literature of the inner life is very largely a record of struggle with the inordinate passions of the social self.
Charles Horton CooleyThere is nothing less to our credit than our neglect of the foreigner and his children, unless it be the arrogance most of us betray when we set out to "Americanize" him.
Charles Horton Cooley