I'd love to get pajamas. Good, nice and warm flannel ones.

've had good friends who got married after they've been together for years and they've said that it was the "next step" for them. Or, they've said, "You just can't bail out anymore." And I've wondered, What made you think you could just bail out before [the wedding]? You don't invest that kind of time and energy with somebody and then just go, "All right, see you later."

I never take that for granted, but I'm always very aware that I'm one person and I can't wear everything.

Hey, I'm a girl, and we like to play dress-up.

I've seen people talk about how they stopped polio, that was a generation that came together and said, "Let's do this." I think in the AIDS community we've become so complacent in that, it's like we just plateaued... We've completely neglected a whole young generation that is now highly infected.

I'd rather put on a pair of jeans and get on my Harley and act like a guy.

As you get older, you get wrinkles and your boobs sag. But you get wisdom, too. So it's not all bad!