As far as my experience of matrimony goes -- I think it tends to draw you out of, and away from yourself.
Charlotte BronteIt is good to be attracted out of ourselves, to be forced to take a near view of the sufferings, the privations, the efforts, the difficulties of others.
Charlotte BronteThe human and fallible should not arrogate a power with which the divine and perfect alone can be safely intrusted.
Charlotte Bronte