Culture does not make people. People make culture.

The idea that sex is something a woman gives a man, and she loses something when she does that, which again for me is nonsense. I want us to raise girls differently where boys and girls start to see sexuality as something that they own, rather than something that a boy takes from a girl.

Perhaps it is time to debate culture. The common story is that in "real" African culture, before it was tainted by the west, gender roles were rigid and women were contentedly oppressed.

The educated ones leave, the ones with the potential to right the wrongs. They leave the weak behind. The tyrants continue to reign because the weak cannot resist. Do you not see that it is a cycle? Who will break that cycle?

People have crushes on priests all the time, you know. It’s exciting to have to deal with God as a rival.

You can't write a script in your mind and then force yourself to follow it. You have to let yourself be.

She could not complain about not having shoes when the person she was talking to had no legs.