I think we must quote whenever we feel that the allusion is interesting or helpful or amusing.
A sense of humor is the ability to understand a joke-and that the joke is oneself.
As between mileage and experience choose experience.
My main recollection is of the work I had to do in order to eat
What is a sense of humor? Surely not the ability to understand a joke. It comes rather from a residing feeling of one's own absurdity. It is the ability to understand a joke, and that the joke is on oneself.
The kind of poetry to avoid in the pretty-pretty kind that pleased our grandmothers, the kind that Longfellow and Tennyson, good poets at their best, wrote at their worst.