And one more thing: Sometimes comfort doesn’t matter. When a shoe is freakin’ fabulous, it may be worth a subsequent day of misery. Soak in Epsom salts and take comfort in the fact that you’re better than everyone else.

A basket of freshly baked pastries like scones make breakfast easy for your host the next day.

I'm a big fan of bringing the outdoors in!

I will choose to do what I can fabulously

I realized this weak that I just cannot do it all. So I will choose to do what i can, fabulously.

We all have a friend or family member who can't bear the sight of a mess. Use her obsessive compulsion to your advantage! Whisper in her ear: "I'm always impressed by how neat your house is. Can you do me a favor and help tidy this place up as the night goes on?"

If you're wearing it to 'da club, you shouldn't be wearing it to 'da office.