Big head, target for enemy; big heart, target for friend.
Let mourning stop when one's grief is fully expressed.
First there must be order and harmony within your own mind.
Tsze-Kung asked, “Is there one word with which to act in accordance throughout a lifetime?” The Master said, “Is not reciprocity such a word? What you do not want done to yourself, do not do to others.
If I am virtuous and worthy, for whom should I not maintain a proper concern?
An inconvenience is an unrecognized opportunity.