The ideal teacher guides his students but does not pull them along; he urges them to go forward and does not suppress them; he opens the way but does not take them to the place.
ConfuciusThe gentleman calls attention to the good points in others; he does not call attention to their defects. The small man does just the reverse of this.
ConfuciusThere are three things to beware of through life: when a man is young, let him beware of his appetites; when he is middle-aged, of his passions; and when old, of covetousness, especially.
Confucius