On matters beyond his ken a gentleman speaks with caution. If names are not right, words are misused. When words are misused, affairs go wrong. When affairs go wrong, courtesy and music droop, law and justice fail. And when law and justice fail them, a people can move neither hand nor foot. So a gentleman must be ready to put names in speech, to put words into deeds. A gentleman is nowise careless of words.
ConfuciusBeing in humaneness is good. If we select other goodness and thus are far apart from humaneness, how can we be the wise?
ConfuciusI am not bothered by the fact that I am not understood. I am bothered when I do not know others.
Confucius