The superior man undergoes three changes. Looked at from a distance, he appears stern; when approached, he is mild; when he is heard to speak, his language is firm and decided.
ConfuciusThe superior man sets his person at rest before he moves; he composes his mind before he speaks.
ConfuciusIn antiquity men studied for their own sake; nowadays men study for the sake of impressing others.
Confucius