Just as lavishness leads easily to presumption, so does frugality to meanness. But meanness is a far less serious fault than presumption.
ConfuciusThe gentleman calls attention to the good points in others; he does not call attention to their defects. The small man does just the reverse of this.
ConfuciusNot knowing life, how can we know death? Why talk of spirits when you do not understand men?
ConfuciusBe sincere and true to your word, serious and careful in your actions; and you will get along even among barbarians, But if you are not sincere and untrustworthy in your speech, frivolous and careless in your actions, how will you get along even among your own neighbors? When stand, see these principles in front of you; in your carriage see them on the yoke. Then you may be sure to get along.
Confucius