The superior man acts before he speaks, and afterwards speaks according to his action.
Consideration for others is the basis of a good life, a good society.
What the wise seek is in themselves
The person who is not strong enough gives up at the halfway point - but you are limiting yourself before even starting.
As the water shapes itself to the vessel that contains it, so a wise man adapts himself to circumstances.
Women and people of low birth are very hard to deal with. If you are friendly to them, they get out of hand, and if you keep your distance, they resent it.