I've got some great guy friends. They can start out as crushes. But when you realize something isn't going to happen, you make a choice whether or not the friendship is worth it. And it usually is. Then you can laugh about the fact that you used to have a crush on him or he had one on you.

The questions I'm asking myself are, 'What makes me happy? Where do I want to be? What will make me happy at 50, 60 and 70?'

I'm kind of all over the place, and I need grounding.

If I like myself at this weight, then this is what I'm going to be. I don't have an eating disorder.

Honesty is the key to a relationship. If you can fake that, you're in.

There's no doubt that motherhood is the best thing in my life. It's all that really matters.

Some things never change and the intriguing things you fall in love with will become the things you don't like.