‎Interdependence is a fundamental law of nature. Even tiny insects survive by mutual cooperation based on innate recognition of their interconnectedness. It is because our own human existence is so dependent on the help of others that our need for love lies at the very foundation of our existence. Therefore we need a genuine sense of responsibility and a sincere concern for the welfare of others.

In some cases is keeping your mouth shut the best answer.

Like the lotus which thrives in mud, the potential for realization grows in the rich soil of everyday life

Is this what you have in mind,' I asked the Dalai Lama, 'when you say in teachings that the buddhas and bodhisattvas of the world are the most selfish beings of all, that by cultivating altruism they actually achieve ultimate happiness for themselves?' Yes. That's wise selfish,' he replied. 'Helping others not means we do this at our own expense. Not like this. Buddhas and bodhisattvas, these people very wise. All their lives they only want one thing: to achieve ultimate happiness. How to do this? By cultivating compassion, by cultivating altruism.

Wisdom and inner peace must be created by yourself.

The essence of compassion is a desire to alleviate the suffering of others and to promote their well-being

If you become more concerned for the welfare of others, you will experience a sense of calm, inner-strength, and self confidence.