It is very rare or almost impossible that an event can be negative from all points of view.
Dalai LamaTo combat hatred directed toward a person, a Buddhist cultivates loving kindness toward that person.
Dalai LamaOur attitude towards suffering becomes very important because it can affect how we cope with suffering when it arises.
Dalai LamaAnger is the ultimate troublemaker. I feel you can express a strong disapproval or dislike of an object without losing your temper.
Dalai Lama