It seems that for some people the idea of compassion entails a complete disregard for or even a sacrifice of their own interests. This is not the case. In fact, you first of all have to have a wish to be happy yourself - if you don't love yourself like that, how can you love others?
Dalai LamaThe ultimate source of my mental happiness is my peace of mind. Nothing can destroy this except my own anger.
Dalai Lama