There is a reason why the other man thinks and acts as he does. Ferret out that reason โ and you have the key to his actions, perhaps to his personality. Try honestly to put yourself in his place.
Dale CarnegieWhy prove to a man he is wrong? Is that going to make him like you? Why not let him save face? He didn't ask for your opinion. He didn't want it. Why argue with him? You can't win an argument, because if you lose, you lose it; and if you win it, you lose it. Why? You will feel fine. But what about him? You have made him feel inferior, you hurt his pride, insult his intelligence, his judgment, and his self-respect, and he'll resent your triumph. That will make him strike back, but it will never make him want to change his mind. A man convinced against his will is of the same opinion still.
Dale CarnegieAll men have fears, but the brave put down their fears and go forward, sometimes to death, but always to victory.
Dale Carnegie