In short, we lose the freshness and spontaneity of true conversation. These are areas in which everyone interested in self-improvement will seek to improve.
Dale CarnegieIf you want to be a good conversationalist, be a good listener. To be interesting, be interested.
Dale CarnegieThe difference between appreciation and flattery? That is simple. One is sincere and the other insincere. One comes from the heart out; the other from the teeth out. One is unselfish; the other selfish. One is universally admired; the other universally condemned.
Dale CarnegieIt isnโt what you have or who you are or where you are or what youโre doing that makes you happy or unhappy. Itโs what you think of it. Two people may in the same place doing the same thing, and yet one may be miserable and the other happy. Why? Because of a different mental attitude.
Dale Carnegie