If you are not in the process of becoming the person you want to be, you are automatically engaged in becoming the person you don't want to be.
Dale CarnegieDid you ever see an unhappy horse? Did you ever see bird that had the blues? One reason why birds and horses are not unhappy is because they are not trying to impress other birds and horses.
Dale CarnegieDo things for others and you'll find your self-consciousness evaporating like morning dew.
Dale CarnegiePraise is like sunlight to the warm human spirit; we cannot flower and grow without it. And yet, while most of us are only too ready to apply to others the cold wind of criticism, we are somehow reluctant to give our fellow the warm sunshine of praise.
Dale Carnegie