We discard the personal specifics which don't conform to the ideal conventional beauty created by art directors and cinematographers.
Damian LoebFondness for people can be terrifying, because it's intangible and it can disappear, or it can be taken away, or you can say the wrong thing. A million things, so it's so uncomfortable. So when you suddenly become aware of it because they don't call you or something for half an hour or whatever, you lose it.
Damian Loeb