A huge part of what animates homophobia among young people is paranoia and fear of their own capacity to be gay themselves.

The mistake that straight people made was imposing the monogamous expectation on men. Men were never expected to be monogamous.

Every American may have equal access to ice cream, but there's no guarantee that the outcome of eating ice cream will be equal.

I'm always telling people who say two men can't make a baby: 'Anything is possible for God. I'm going to keep inseminating my husband and keep my fingers crossed.'

every relationship you are in will fail, until one doesn't

Relationships are monuments build on lies

I don't write about my life in my column.