every relationship you are in will fail, until one doesn't

Parenting is about being competent and responsible. It's not about gender, necessarily.

I'm allergic to dogs, so I couldn't even adopt what gay men typically adopt when they have that maternal gene.

You want to help gay kids, you have to reach them in middle school and high school, when they're being bullied.

I waver between a cop-out agnostic and principled atheism

The mistake that straight people made was imposing the monogamous expectation on men. Men were never expected to be monogamous.

Books are magic: you never know where they're going to end up.