I'm allergic to dogs, so I couldn't even adopt what gay men typically adopt when they have that maternal gene.

It's going to take generations of gay people marrying before these things start to feel natural. We haven't had it long enough to remake it as our own, so it does feel like you're getting dressed up in straight drag to do it.

My dad was a homicide cop in the gay neighborhood in the city when gay neighborhoods were desperate, depressing, sad places run by the mob. The only gay people he'd met when I came out to him were corpses.

A lot of people think that telling people you're gay is something someone might say just to get attention.

Shouldn't homophobic politicians and anti-gay bullies be presumed to be gay until they get caught up in a straight sex scandal?

Most Americans don't care about gay marriage. But it matters very much to the knuckle-draggers and Christianists and whack jobs in Bush's ever smaller base.

The Bible is a radically pro-slavery document. Slave owners waved Bibles over their heads during the Civil War and justified it.