Natural isn't something I get called a lot in Texas.

the truth is often a mixed message

It's going to take generations of gay people marrying before these things start to feel natural. We haven't had it long enough to remake it as our own, so it does feel like you're getting dressed up in straight drag to do it.

Don't mistake being an asshole for being a man.

I'm always telling people who say two men can't make a baby: 'Anything is possible for God. I'm going to keep inseminating my husband and keep my fingers crossed.'

Is it adultery if I’m committing it at one end of a guy and he’s committing it at the other end of that same guy?

My husband Terry and I are mostly monogamous. . . . There are times — certain set and limited circumstances — when it is permissible for us to have sex with others.