A lot of people are living their lives online in much more public ways with Facebook and Twitter.
Dan SavageWe've had a culture war roaring away, and the kinds of people who want to abuse and discriminate against gay people who are adults can't really lay their hands on us unless they want to be gay-bashers and go to jail. They abuse us from afar and in the abstract, they abuse us with checkbooks and ballots, but their kids go to school on Monday morning. And there's a gay kid. And they feel they have license to beat that gay kid up in a way that I don't think they did when I was in school. I think it's gotten worse.
Dan SavageIs it adultery if Iโm committing it at one end of a guy and heโs committing it at the other end of that same guy?
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