The mistake that straight people made was imposing the monogamous expectation on men. Men were never expected to be monogamous.
Dan SavageYes, yes: Taking out Saddam Hussein means war, and war is bad for children and other living things. I went to grade school in the 1970s, and I recall the poster. But there are times when war is not only a tragic and unavoidable necessity, but also good for children and other living things.
Dan SavageIs it adultery if Iโm committing it at one end of a guy and heโs committing it at the other end of that same guy?
Dan SavageMy dad was a homicide cop in the gay neighborhood in the city when gay neighborhoods were desperate, depressing, sad places run by the mob. The only gay people he'd met when I came out to him were corpses.
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