Everyone lies about sex, more or less, to themselves if not to others, to others if not to themselves, exaggerating its importance or minimizing its pull.
Daphne MerkinThere's something stubborn about families, unhappy ones in particular: they outlive themselves, and then they live on.
Daphne MerkinMy mother is the source of my unease in the world and thus the only person who can make me feel at home in the world.
Daphne MerkinIt was through reading that I discovered the crucial, even sacrosanct place the rituals of drinking held in the American imagination - the ingenious way alcohol seemed to lubricate everything from onerous chitchat to self-conscious sexual advances.
Daphne MerkinMuch as I try to disguise myself, there is never a time when I'm not aware of being overweight.
Daphne MerkinEverything felt fragile and freshly come upon, but for now, at least, my depression had stepped back, giving me room to move forward. I had forgotten what it was like to be without it, and for a moment I floundered, wondering how I would recognize myself. I knew for certain it would return, sneaking up on me when I wasn’t looking, but meanwhile there were bound to be glimpses of light if only I stayed around and held fast to the long perspective. It was a chance that seemed worth taking.
Daphne Merkin