There's something stubborn about families, unhappy ones in particular: they outlive themselves, and then they live on.
Daphne MerkinNo bill of sexual rights can hold its own against the lawless, untamable landscape of the erotic imagination.
Daphne MerkinI think the experience of depression that I most think remains true throughout the years is it's very isolating. That to me is its strongest quality. That you're alone in a room, that you're cut off, you're just sort of stuck with it. It puts up a wall.
Daphne MerkinMuch as I try to disguise myself, there is never a time when I'm not aware of being overweight.
Daphne MerkinNaturally, our own irrational demands strike us as having the force of needs, while other people's needs strike us as capricious indulgences.
Daphne MerkinHow much simpler it would be all around if you could put your mind in a cast, like a broken ankle, and elicit murmurings of sympathy from other people instead of skepticism (โYou canโt really be feeling as bad as all thatโ) and in some cases outright hostility (โMaybe if you stopped thinking about yourself so much โ).
Daphne Merkin