Instant enlightenment is to give all your happiness away to others.

Your close men friends should be willing to challenge your mediocrity by suggesting a concrete action you can perform that will pop you out of your rut, one way or the other. And you must be willing to offer them your brutal honesty, in the same way, if you are all to grow.

Without a conscious life-purpose a man is totally lost, drifting, adapting to events rather than creating events. Without knowing his life-purpose a man lives a weakend, impotent existence, perhaps even becoming even sexually impotent or prone to mechanical and disinterested sex.

Your suffering is shaped exactly by your refusal to open.

Thank God for such women, who make no apologies for their oceanic depth and riptides of emotion.

If you are waiting for anything in order to live and love without holding back, then you suffer.

Every moment waited is a moment wasted.