Humility means accepting reality with no attempt to outsmart it.

Once we understand that what happens beyond our control may be just what we need, we see that acceptance of reality can be our way of participating in our own evolution.

Once we make our relationship choices in an adult way, a prospective partner who is unavailable, nonreciprocal, or not open to processing feelings and issues, becomes, by those very facts, unappealing. Once we love ourselves, people no longer look good to us unless they are good for us.

Humility means accepting reality with no attempt to outsmart it.

We can actually reconstruct our past by examining what we think, say, feel, expect, believe, and do in an intimate relationship now.

To be adult in relationship is not to be conflict-free, it's to resolve conflicts mindfully.

Love is the possibility of possibilities. Its farthest reach is beyond us, no matter how long we love or how much. It will always remain the mute mystery to whose ecstasy and ache we can only surrender with a yes.