People now feel time accelerating. Lists allow them to feel some sense of accomplishment.
Just imagine that you are the person you want to be.
To love and be loved is to feel the sun from both sides.
This is really America in therapy, people trying to get themselves together and be whole.
Lists have always implied social order.
Frequently, visualization is the key to lose weight. Imagine yourself with your desired body, and work for it. At some point in the future, this wish will come true.