Funny the only two times we use the phrase "seeing someone" are when we are referring to being in a a relationship or getting psychological help.

she wonders if we feel more regret for the things we do or for the things we didn't do

If you don't participate, you're just taking up oxygen. (Bunny) Life is a banquet. Approach it with hunger. (Chuck)

The most basic and somehow forgettable thing is this: Love is not pain. Love is goodness. And real love--it's less shiny than solid and simple.

I don’t know why we do it. But sometimes we just swim straight for the net.

But, finally, I had to open my eyes. I had to stop keeping secrets. The truth, thankfully, is insistent. What I saw then made action necessary. I had to see people for who they were. I had to understand why I made the choices I did. Why I had given them my loyalty. I had to make changed. I had to stop allowing love to be dangerous. I had to learn how to protect myself. But first… I had to look

That's what people do who love you. They put their arms around you and love you when you're not so lovable.