time is as adhesive as love, and the more time you spend with someone the greater the likelihood of finding yourself with a permanent sort of thing to deal with that people casually refer to as 'friendship,' as if that were the end of the matter.
Deborah EisenbergEvery moment is all the things that have happened before and all the things that are going to happen, and...the way all those things look at one point on their way along a line.
Deborah EisenbergI don't think things are ever exactly the way one expects, and I don't think things are ever the way one assumes they are at the moment. What I actually think is that one has no idea of what things are like, ever.
Deborah EisenbergIt's broadening. You meet people in your family you'd never happen to run into otherwise.
Deborah EisenbergYou write something and there’s no reality to it. You can’t inject it with any kind of reality. You have to be patient and keep going, and then, one day, you can feel something signaling to you from the innermost recesses. Like a little person trapped under the rubble of an earthquake. And very, very, very slowly you find your way toward the little bit of living impulse.
Deborah Eisenberg