The secret to a happy marriage? Do whatever your wife tells you. 'Yes, dear.' And breathe.

I never really had the classic struggle. I had faith.

People tend to relax when they're off camera. That's when they should be working the hardest.

The strongest, toughest men all have compassion. They're not heartless and cold. You have to be man enough to have compassion - to care about people and about your children" (217) - John Singleton "Oh Man, I've Become My Father

Just stick with your kids. There's no set of rules on how to be a parent. No handbook. Just hang around your kids and ask them a lot of questions. You have to stay involved in your children's lives and monitor everything they're doing whether they like it or not. You're not in the job of making them like it. You're there to protect them in a world that can be troubling.

Everybody has a job to do. There are people in Iraq on both sides of this war who do what they do for religious reasons, and they feel with God on their side. Some people are good at annihilating people. Maybe that's their gift.

You don't have to kill somebody to play a murderer. You have to read the script and interpret the character.