What I'm trying to describe is that it's impossible to get out of your skin into somebody else's.... That somebody else's tragedy is not the same as your own.
Diane ArbusTaking pictures is like tiptoeing into the kitchen late at night and stealing Oreo cookies.
Diane ArbusOne thing that struck me early is that you donโt put into a photograph whatโs going to come out. Or, vice versa, what comes out is not what you put in.
Diane ArbusIf I were just curious, it would be very hard to say to someone, I want to come to your house and have you talk to me and tell me the story of your life. I mean people are going to say, You're crazy. Plus they're going to keep mighty guarded. But the camera is a kind of license. A lot of people, they want to be paid that much attention and that's a reasonable kind of attention to be paid.
Diane Arbus