A judgmental attitude helps neither ourselves nor others. Arguing or preaching rarely changes other people. Even if our opinions are justified, criticizing others usually makes them wary and defensive. And it takes our attention away from our own lives, which we can change.
Diane DreherRemember the importance of small actions. They're the building blocks in the architecture of your life, the quiet victories you win for yourself each day.
Diane DreherWhen confronted by conflict and confusion, another practice is to take a deep breath, pause and ask: 'Where is the gift in this?
Diane DreherOur greatest natural resources are our hearts and minds, together with those of the people around us.
Diane DreherSuccessful leaders develop effective strategies for maintaining their boundaries. ... Most time bandits don't know any better. And being a time bandit is a matter of context. One person's time bandit is another person's pleasant diversion. ... Instead of gritting our teeth to be polite and resenting the time bandit for holding us up, the best choice is to be honest. We cannot expect another person to honor our needs unless we affirm them ourselves.
Diane Dreher