The essence of chastity is not the suppression of lust, but the total orientation of one's life towards a goal. Without such a goal, chastity is bound to become ridiculous. Chastity is the sine qua non of lucidity and concentration.
Dietrich BonhoefferIt is infinitely easier to suffer in obedience to a human command than to accept suffering as free, responsible men.
Dietrich Bonhoeffer