It is foolish to expect a young man to follow your advice and to ignore your example.
Your program must have an overriding purpose which is clearly visible and which teaches lessons beyond winning.
If you are a good team, your offense is born on the defensive end.
Shout praise and whisper criticism.
As a coach, you're just trying to figure out how to keep a team on edge. You've got to find that edge.
Have character, don't be one.