When you're young you think that you're going to sail into a lovely lake of quietude and peace. This is profoundly untrue.
Doris LessingBorrowing is not much better than begging; just as lending with interest is not much better than stealing.
Doris LessingBut it isn't only the terror everywhere, and the fear of being conscious of it, that freezes people. It's more than that. People know they are in a society dead or dying. They are refusing emotion because at the end of very emotion are property, money, power. They work and despise their work, and so freeze themselves. They love but know that it's a half- love or a twisted love, and so they freeze themselves.
Doris Lessing