I'd spent so long trying to fit in,trying to be someone i wasn't,that i had no idea who i was any more.

I never trusted any man not to find someone else; to stay with me if he had another option. to not find something in me that would have him heading for the hills. that was the other reason for not thinking long-term- when someone walked out, as they invairiably did, it wasn't too big a shock. a disappointment but nothing, I hadn't been expecting.

When you can't be honest with people, you can't ever relax with them.

But feelings aren't like thoughts, they can't be changed at will.

Share too much and someone can hurt you.

I think what love is changes over time, as you grow older, learn more, do more.

Christmas is a time for families.