For graduate school I ended up going to the University of Iowa, which is, of course, the best graduate writing program in the country.

I am a summer person.

To be early is to be on time, to be on time is to be late, to be late is to be forgotten.

Iowa City is okay as Midwestern cities go, but theres no food, no culture, no ocean.

When you peered into the windows of someone else's life, you could only guess what was going on.

Guilt and no guilt: these were the worst things. The only thing worse than the guilt was the fear of getting caught.

If you love something, set it free. If it was meant to be, it will come back to you. But this, of course, was bullshit. If you loved something and let it go...it would (hello!) find something else to love.