We don't realize that, somewhere within us all, there does exist a supreme self who is eternally at peace.
Elizabeth GilbertThich Nhat Hanh has the ability to bring forth the state of peace that we each inherently posses merely by his presence in a room-this is divine power.
Elizabeth GilbertThe Silly Putty-like malleability of the institution [marriage], in fact, is the only reason we still have the thing at all. Very few people... would accept marriage on it's thirteenth-century terms. Marriage survives, in other words, precisely because it evolves. (Though I suppose this would not be a very persuasive argument to those who probably also don't believe in evolution).
Elizabeth GilbertOur relationship now thoroughly ruined, with even civility destroyed between us, all I wanted anymore was the door.
Elizabeth GilbertWhen you have only two minutes to say good-bye to the person you love most in the world, and you donโt know when youโll see each other again, you can become logjammed with the effort to say and do and settle everything at once.
Elizabeth GilbertYour problem is you don't understand what that word means. People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that's holding you back, the person who brings you to your attention so you can change your life. A true soul mate is probably the most important person you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then they leave.
Elizabeth Gilbert