What's right for most people in most situations isn't right for everyone in every situation. Real morality lies in following one's own heart.
I was amazed at the rosy glow that can be around one when youre in a film thats done well.
The smartest people I know have that extra edge. The risk is always there that youll look terribly undignified and slobbering, and inside I cringe about that, but I should be more aggressive.